Let's Take A Ride Together As We Explore The Greatness In Us!

The world is all about Relationship and Committment. People getting committed to their vision and purpose for living and maintain a healthy relationship with friends, family and people around them. This site is also geared to help you understand why you are living and how to lead a better life. It'll also assist you to see the better aspect of your life, everyone you meet and how to make the best of your existence. As Mr Myles Munroe said in his book - In Charge 'You become a leader the day you realize that you are gifted to meet a need no one else in entire world can meet.'

Having this message in the centre of your heart spurs you to wake up and start meeting those needs. Knowing that only you can be you.There are people that are directly or indirectly connected to you, when you fail they fail. The world is where it is today because somebody like you that was destined for greatness refused to serve his gifts to the world.

The world would be a better place if we all can do all the good we can, to all the people we can, as long as ever as we can. Refuse to be buried with your gifts when you have come to die. Remember, when a man dies he has become all he can ever be - nothing more. Give your best while thou yet live and do more than you are paid to do.

As you journey on your way to success remember: People are not to be used because they were created in God's image. Everbody is an asset for greatness. Nobody would have thought Albert Einstene to achieve such glorious feats in science after his teacher said he has a 'dual brain'. Nobody is better than the other. The fact that somebody is doing better than you it doens't mean they are better than you, it's just that they've discorvered and developed their gifts and they've learned to serve their gifts to the world. You too can develop your gifts and experience the joy of serving those gifts to the world. Remember, we can all do much if we can all do a little- Start Today!

THE IMPORTANCE OF BEING YOURSELF :

One of the best way to live a healthy balanced life is by discovering your true self. John Mason said 'when you are always trying to be someone else, the best you can ever be is second best.' Moreover being your true self exposes the unique qualities you possess. So be yourself; but be your best self. Remember when you are always someone else, you are simply a photocopy and photocopy costs five Naira.

Learn To Love Yourself : Loving yourself enables you to be in intimacy with your true self. It also makes you to observe your gifts and uniqueness. You cannot achieve much if you are not in relationship with yourself. Note that none of the billions of people on earth right now is a substitute for you. You are uniquely irreplaceable. You represent God's definition of a perfect being, so be yourself (God's Best).

Express Gratitude : Being grateful to God and humanity for every kindness you receive can make a whole lot of difference in your relationship with others, and this can greatly add to our own joy. A heart of gratitude also creates an awareness of the good things that happens to you. Remember that the only difference between Joy and Happiness is: Happiness have a reason for being. But Joy exists regardless of the circumstance. Choose to always express God's Joy that is shead abroad in your heart.

What is lust : Lust is an act of infactuation which aims at destroying the good in others. Lust is all out to get while love is all about what I can give. Lust is dangerous because it has the power to repel love. Great minds build on love not lust.

What Is Love : Love is the means by which we express genuine care and concern for someone. You can give without loving, but you can't love without giving. Giving is the only proof of love. Love can also be the harmony we experience when we are in relationship with our friends and family.

There is nothing that gives more joy to people than knowing how much you love and care for them. You cannot care for people if you don't love them. Love is being there when there is every reason for you not to be. Always know that only you can decide to love.

SEX ? Napoleon Hill said in his book 'success through a positive mental attitude'. "Sex is a physical function of the body under the control of the subconscious and conscious mind. He said the power of sex like all other creation of God is good and can be used for good or for evil, the little difference that makes the big difference between the power of sex being a virtue or a vice is mental attitude.

The inherent emotion of sex is one of the most powerful forces of the subconscious mind. The effects of its motivating power can be observed long before adolescence.

When it is in conflict with the will of the conscious mind, the power of imagination, as it affects the emotion of sex, has a tendency to win unless the conscious mind uses its power to affect, use, control or harmonize with the powers of the subconscious. You have the power to choose. Choose wisely with a positive mental attitude. Transmute sex into virtue! Thus you will win over one of the greatest problems you will ever have to face in your personal and moral life."

- adapted from success through a positive mental attitude by Napoleon Hill.